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What’s In That Van? What You Got In That Van? 10 Things I Always Keep In My Minivan.

By September 27, 2018 About, Mom Life, My Favorite Things, Parenting

Last weekend, I took my kids on an 8 hour road trip to go visit my mom in Ohio. I really love my mama, and the kids are finally getting old enough, so these trips aren’t a total nightmare, but I still always feel like I’m living dangerously when I take them that far from home by myself. I’ve been making this trip for the past 4 years though, and I’ve learned some hard lessons on the open road, lessons I want you to avoid learning the hard way. These tips are great for long road trips, but they can also be really useful for everyday. Here are the things I’ve learned to keep in my minivan to stop tantrums, clean messes and handle emergencies.


Garbage bags and plastic bags– I love to keep extra bags in my center console and in every seat back pocket. The kids can use them to pick up their own trash. For long trips I hang a large trash bag on the back of the passenger seat.

A large flat sheet– This is great to lay across the bottom of your van or car if you’re going on a long trip, have a sick kid, or if you’re like us and have a dog who throws up every time she’s in the car. It makes clean up so much easier. I keep this in my trunk, in case of emergencies.

Febreze or other air freshener- If someone has an accident or gets sick, the smell can be hard to take. The Febreze will help to minimize the smell until you can get home and can really take care of it.

A Roll of paper towels in the front seat– I have a three year who really hates to get dirty so keeping paper towels within arms reach is really important. I can easily pass her a paper towel when she spills her water on herself.

Empty water bottles– Keep a few small empty water bottles or sippy cups in your van or car. Often my kids decided they are dying of thirst five minutes after we’ve left the house. If I have extra cups I can fill them up with water from my own water bottle. If you don’t usually have a your own water, throw some bottled water in your center console.

Extra snacks– Nuts, trail mix, gold fish, protein and granola bars are great things to keep in the car if you suddenly have ravenous kids. This tip keeps tantrums at bay.

Small bowls, plates, plastic silverware and straws– These things are great to have handy on a road trip, but even for every day.

A small backpack full of card games, books, coloring supplies, small toys, etc.- This backpack is great for bringing in to restaurants, doctor’s appointments or any time your kids will be waiting and needing something to keep them occupied.

Extra car charger- I’ve been burned before with a car charger that suddenly stops working. I always keep an extra one in my glove compartment. Even better, keep a fully charged portable charger in there and have instant charging wherever you need to go.

A First Aid Kit- I keep the kit within easy reach under the passenger seat and inside it I have:

  • Band-aids of all sizes
  • Hand sanitizer
  • Alcohol wipes
  • Neosporin
  • Cotton swabs
  • Gauze
  • Adhesive Tape
  • Tweezers
  • Children’s Ibuprofen and Claritin
  • Benadryl spray
  • A medicine cup and syringe
  • Digital thermometer
  • Scissors
  • Tweezers
  • Safety pins
  • Instant ice packs
  • Sunscreen

Here’s to keeping our cars clean and our kids safe and happy!

Side note: I’ve been a minivan mom for almost 7 years now! When I got the damn thing I cried, because I suddenly realized that I had gone from being just an adult with a kid to a full-fledged Soccer Mom. (I was also 8 months pregnant with my second child at the time, so that might explain some of the extra emotion.) If you’re on the fence about buying that minivan, you’re not alone. I knew that the features and design of the van were the right thing for our family. We needed the extra seats, extra space, and all of the bells and whistles it offered. It was still hard.  It’s important to remember though, that what you drive does not define you! Get in that minivan, blast that gangsta rap with the windows down and get shit done!

Erin

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Local RVA Road Trip Destinations for Young Families

By April 30, 2018 About, Family, Family fun, Richmond

It’s time to take to the open road! Richmond is a great city in its own right, but it’s also within short driving distance to many popular family-friendly destinations like Washington D.C., Baltimore, Charlotte, the Outer Banks and Myrtle Beach. Believe it or not, there are even more great places that you might not have thought of, and they can all be reached in four hours or less. Check out our ideas below and start planning your next adventure today!

 

1.Yorktown, VA– I’ve heard great things about Yorktown Beach, and you can get there without the traffic of Virginia Beach and OBX. Yorktown also has many historical attractions including the American Revolution Museum and Yorktown Battlefield.  After you’ve taken in some sun and some history, take a stroll along Riverwalk Landing or take a boat tour or even set sail on a pirate cruise.

Distance: Just over an hour

 

2. Small Towns of the Shenandoah Valley– Staunton, Natural Bridge, Lexington, Hot Springs– I love a small town and these are some of my favorite due to all of the wonderful restaurants, breweries and specialty shops they have to offer. Make one of them your home base and then enjoy driving around and exploring all of the many local attractions. Some of my favorites include: The Frontier Culture Museum, SunSpot Glass Blowing demonstrations and The American Shakespeare Center in Staunton, The Route 11 Chip Factory in Mount Jackson, Natural Bridge State Park, Dinosaur Kingdom II and Virginia Safari Park in Natural Bridge and all of the numerous parks and hiking trails in the area.

Distance: Anywhere from 1 hour, 45 minutes-2 hours, 45 minutes

 

3. Raleigh/Durham, NC– These two nearby cities are both university towns so they are chock-full of great museums, parks, and other family-friendly activities. Check out Pullen Park, Marbles Kids Museum or North Carolina Museum of Natural Sciences in Raleigh and The Sarah P. Duke Gardens, The Museum of Life and Science or the Duke Lemur Center in Durham.

Distance: 2 1/2 hours

 

4. Roanoke, VA My family visited Roanoke for the first time last December and we had a blast. We stayed here at this tiny horse farm. I highly recommend it. Our favorite attraction was the Taubman Museum of Art. The museum itself is free, but we paid $5 to enter Art Venture, the museum’s interactive children’s learning space. The kids had a blast making all sorts of things. We also loved the Mill Mountain Star and Park, The Virginia Museum of Transportation, The main Roanoke Public library (with an indoor twisty slide in the children’s area) and the Carilion Peter Pan playground in Elmood Park. If you get some adult time, Roanoke is also home to some great breweries, like Deschutes and Parkway, and Black Dog Salvage, the home of the show Salvage Dawgs on the DIY Network.

Distance: Just under 3 hours

 

5. Berkely Springs, WV– Ok, I’ve never actually been here, but I’ve driven through the town many times on my way home from Ohio and I just think it has to be one of the cutest small towns ever! One day I will visit, and, I’ll be sure to take a walk around Prospect Peak, snuggle with a cat at Give Purrs A Chance and check out the stars at the Morgan County Observatory. This small town is also home to many artists, art galleries and antique shops. Just 10 miles south of town is Cacapon Resort State Park, which features a challenging golf course, miles of trails and a sand swimming beach.

Distance: Just over 3 hours

 

6. Hershey, PA– Chocolate, anyone? My in-laws took my 7 year old here last summer. He loved the Hershey’s Chocolate World factory tour so much that they didn’t even make it to the Hershey Park Amusement Park. His favorite part was going into the kitchen and designing his own chocolate bar. In addition to these two main attractions, Hershey is also known for the ZooAmerican North American Wildlife Park, The Antique Automobile Club of America Museum and The Pennsylvania State Police Museum.

Distance: 3 hours and 45 minutes

 

7. Wilmington, NC This beach town has a lot to offer. Our kids loved Battleship North Carolina, the most decorated US Battleship of WWII! You can explore nine decks, crew’s quarters, gun turrets, and much more. We all loved the North Carolina Aquarium at Fort Fisher, full of interactive exhibits. The ferry to Southport was exciting for the kids, as they’d never been on a ferry that they could drive onto before. Sourthport itself was a very sweet town full of speciality souvenir shops, ice cream and seafood restaurants. If the weather is warm enough you have to check out Wrightsville Beach and grab a late lunch/early dinner at Oceanic to watch the sunset.

Distance: 4 hours

 

8. Bethany Beach, DE– Bethany Beach is a great destination for young families because it calmer than Rehoboth and Ocean City, but it still offers a small boardwalk with shops and restaurants and a great beach. There are definitely not as many things to do as there are on the bigger beach boardwalks, but for small children, not to mention their already exhausted parents, content to play in the sand, this might be fore the best. The Bethany Beach Nature Center has some small animal exhibits and a playground for kids. Rent some bikes at the Bethany Bike Shop, take a reading break at the South Coastal Library or compete for best score at Captain Jack’s Pirate Golf. If you run out of things to do you can always make the short 20 minute drive to the theme parks, boardwalks and outlet shopping in Rehoboth Beach.

Distance: 4 hours

 

Traveling tip: Have you ever tried sharing a hotel room with young children? Do you and your spouse go to bed at eight o’clock or just sit whispering in the dark? That is not a vacation!

I’ve solved this problem in two ways:

  1. Extended Stay Hotels- For not much more than an average room, you can book a one or even a two bedroom suite. We always check the rates at extended stay hotels like Marriott’s SpringHill Suites and Residence Inns and Hilton’s Homewood Suites. These hotels also have free breakfast buffets and small kitchens, which can help you save money on vacation.
  2. Vacation Rentals– I’ve had a lot of success using Airbnb and Vrbo on family vacations. You lose out on some of the amenities that a hotel has to offer, but you can a lot more space, free parking and privacy. If you book far enough ahead you can find a great deal. I just got back from a trip to NYC with six ladies. We stayed in an apartment with three queen sized beds and one bathroom in the middle of Midtown Manhattan and we only paid $115/person for three nights. No hotel could’ve beat that!

 

 

Traveling with children is always a big adventure, and, let’s face it, a bit of a crap shoot. If you’re planning a trip for this spring, I wish you good luck! Go forth and make those family memories that you and your kids will never forget, like the time my son pooped through his diaper and all over my husband’s shirt just as the waiter was bringing over our dinner at a beautiful Italian restaurant on the Jersey Shore. Ah, sweet memories.

♥ Erin

 

 

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